First Question

I am trying to use my new knowledge simultaneously to stimulate growth/income in my business as well as appease her somewhat by applying for and getting a part-time rut job for our benefit. I have tried reasoning with her and begged patience as I try to jump start my existing business (of 23 years) which has never produced enough $ yet to suit her. Since I have equipment, time, energy and ongoing advertising expenses that I can’t /don’t want to just say to heck with and get a rut job to please her, what is my best move now? We both love each other but her dissatisfaction so far in my lack of man-up and do it performance in my business has her depressed about our future and she feels like she would be better off without me draining some of our savings every month to keep paying the bills…Much of her Pension, 401K & our roth Ira values have plumetted in the last 3 years and that is part of her stress. Suggestions?